Dear, "Nice Guys",

    "Nice Guys Finish Last" is stupid. Stop saying it. I promise, you do not want to be the guy referenced in that phrase.

    Why?

    Because if you are only nice to a girl because you want to have sex with her, you are NOT A NICE GUY. And more often than not, it is THAT kind of "Nice Guy" that you hear saying this. If you're pissed off women for not giving you what you "deserve" or feel "entitled to", then you're probably not at all as nice as you like to think yourself to be.

    Just because you are treating a girl like you would treat any other decent human being/friend does not mean that she is obligated to have sex with you. Or date you. You should treat a friend like a friend, regardless of the kind of genitals she has. You're usually friends with someone because you like spending time with them, not because of what they can do for you.

    If a women is treating you like crap and you still stick around, that doesn't make you "nice" either. It makes you a doormat. If she's using you then she isn't a good friend either. If your guy-friend treated you like crap, you wouldn't stick around. Being "friends" with a woman that treats you like crap just because you're hoping to get in her pants doesn't make you "nice". It makes her someone that a truly nice guy shouldn't date anyway because a truly nice guy should respect women and respect himself.